Whether you’ve tried to contact a divorce solicitor before or are waiting to you take the plunge and make the call to start proceedings, divorce is a part of people’s lives that they’d never imagined they would go through.
It’s hard to prepare for something that’s unique to every couple and, while talking to family and friends can help, people rarely share the stories of good and easy divorces, preferring the narrative of a long drawn-out messy divorce.
Trust me when I say, however, that not all divorces take years, costs thousands and are bitter battles. There are some that are clean, straight forward and easy.
My team and I know that when people know where they stand and what to expect, it puts them in a much better stead to face this stressful time in their lives.
So how can you really prepare when filing for divorce? Here are a few things that have made a positive difference to people going through divorce proceedings:
Accept the bad with the good
There are moments in all cases when you will think “I can’t do this” or “it’s not worth it.” While there may be a point where it feels difficult, your legal team will be there to carry on with you.
Trust the process
Whether it’s an “easy” divorce or a “messy” divorce, the process of every divorce has the same timeframe and court guidelines. It’s true that every case is different, but the court process is the same and you will be guided through it, every step of the way.
Be honest with your lawyer
As long as you’re honest and open, then your case will run smoothly. Don’t be afraid to show your emotions; your legal team is here to help you on good days and on bad days. Being upfront and honest will build a good working relationship to make your case run smoothly.
Disclosure
There will always be some form of financial disclosure within a case. Gathering your documents as soon as you can will help with negotiations and preparing your documentation.
Acceptance
This may seem obvious but once you have accepted the marriage is over and that you will be getting divorced, you can start seeing the future that you will gain after your divorce.
Divorces are painful enough, which is why having a good working relationship with your legal team is so important. If you’re thinking of filing for divorce and would like to know where you stand, call us on 0151 282 1700 or make an enquiry today.