How to survive a divorce
There were 101,127 divorces in England and Wales in 2015 (the latest year published). That’s a decrease of 9.1% since 2014, when there were 110,330 divorces. Despite divorce being accepted within society, is it normal to feel confused, frustrated and bewildered.
- “Is it really the end?”
- “Have you fully assessed your feelings and spoken to your spouse?”
- “Do you think couples counselling would assist you?”
Even if you are sure the relationship is at an end, counselling could help you to part on better terms. If you wish to speak to someone, contact Relate, or alternatively many churches offer relationship counselling.
The end of a marriage should be grieved. If you are the one ending the relationship, you should accept that your partner may take some time before they too accept that the marriage cannot be worked on.
What should you do?
No-one can make the decision to end a marriage but you. You are likely to experience a range of emotions including disbelief, anger and denial. This is perfectly normal.
What can a Solicitor do for me?
Jackson Lees’ solicitors can assist you with the legal process of obtaining a divorce. Tom is a member of Resolution. Resolution’s 6,500 members are family lawyers committed to the constructive resolution of family disputes. Our members follow a Code of Practice that promotes a non-confrontational approach to family problems. Our members also encourage solutions that consider the needs of the whole family; and in particular the best interests of children.
We at Jackson Lees also offer a Mediation Service as well as Collaborative Law and are committed to helping you resolve any issues in a non-confrontational way.
What else do I need to think about?
Do you have children? If so, you need to think about access between your children and your partner. Jackson Lees can advise you on Residence, Contact, Parental Responsibility and other issues affecting your children.
Do you need a Financial Settlement?
If so, we can assist you, either by referring you to Mediation, offering Collaborative Law (negotiating with your spouse or their Solicitor) or ultimately representing you at Court, should this be necessary.
The breakdown of a relationship is upsetting enough for you and your family, and it can be one of the most difficult times in your life. It can be stressful balancing your work commitments and your child care, whilst also needing time to find the best legal advice. This is where Jackson Lees can help. The Family Law team can provide you with expert, professional and sensitive legal advice at one of their offices across the Wirral.
If you would like any more advice regarding divorce, you can contact our Liverpool and Wirral divorce law solicitors. Please click here for a call back or message us your enquiry.